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How Sweet the Bitter Soup

A Memoir

Published by She Writes Press
Distributed by Simon & Schuster

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About The Book

Her mom was working as a maid. Her dad’s Alzheimer’s was in high gear. And the rent on her parents’ small Chicago apartment had just gone up. Again. But Lori was holding it all together: helping care for her dad and pay her family’s bills, figuring out how to navigate graduate school and four jobs on top of her family responsibilities, and, somehow, continuing to believe that there was more to life than this.

And there was. An exciting job teaching at a prestigious school in China. Although the previous month, she had turned down a job offer in Iowa—thinking it was too far away from her family—she felt completely at ease accepting the job in China. Grasping on to the fierce determination she’d had since childhood, Lori found herself in Guangzhou, China, where she fell in love with the culture and with a man from a tiny town in Hubei province. What followed was a transformative adventure—one that will inspire readers to use the bitter to make life even sweeter.

About The Author

Lori Qian holds a BA in anthropology and philosophy and an MA in applied linguistics, and has advanced graduate training in school leadership, literacy instruction, and elementary education. She is a regular contributor to Urban Family Magazine in Guangzhou, China, and enjoys presenting around the world on topics ranging from cultivating creativity to pedagogical approaches to writing. She is passionate about education, multiculturalism, and self-improvement. After living in China for ten years, she recently relocated to Alpine, Utah, with her family, ready to embrace an entirely new adventure. Qian is currently working on her second book, Fighting for Fitness, a self-help memoir of her own health transformation.

Product Details

  • Publisher: She Writes Press (August 13, 2019)
  • Length: 296 pages
  • ISBN13: 9781631526152

Raves and Reviews

“. . . Qian’s smooth prose and sympathetic affect make this memoir a compelling read. A smoothly told, down-to-earth tale of an American abroad.”
Kirkus Reviews

“Lori Qian’s debut memoir is a story of triumph, love, family, kindness, and humor. Qian depicts frustration, resourcefulness, pain, and heroism hidden in the lives of two people making great sacrifices for what they hope will be a brighter future. As they persevere, they move to a wider understanding of the human condition. This is a story for our time. Young adult and adult readers will find respite, hope, encouragement, and joy in this carefully crafted and warmly felt debut.”
—Mary Rakow, award-winning author of The Memory Room

“Lori Qian’s story is stunning! From the courage to leave her family and move to China to being served frog and eel at her soon-to-be in-laws’ house, her story will remind you that life is a grand adventure. Qian’s vivid storytelling invites us to come along for the ride.”
—McArthur Krishna, award-winning and best-selling author of the Girls Who Choose God series

“An incredible story about finding home, finding yourself, and falling in love in a foreign country, Lori Qian’s inspiring memoir is a reminder that life is full of surprises and hope.”
—Jennifer Chen Tran, literary agent

“Striking in its honesty and forthrightness. . . . Exemplifying the best kind of memoir writing, Qian shares not only her external experiences but also the psychological and emotional landscapes she traverses.”
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