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The Buddha Sat Right Here

A Family Odyssey Through India and Nepal

Published by She Writes Press
Distributed by Simon & Schuster

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About The Book

Dena was a busy midwife trapped on the hamster wheel of working motherhood. Adam was an eccentric Buddhist yogi passing as a hard-working dad. Bella was fourteen and wanted to be normal. Sophia was up for anything that involved skipping school. Together, they shouldered backpacks, walked away from their California life of all-night births, carpool schedules, and Cal Skate, and criss-crossed India and Nepal for eight months—a journey that led them to His Holiness the Dalai Lama, the tree where the Buddha sat, and the arms of Amma the Divine Mother. From the banks of the Ganges to the Himalayan roof of the world, this enthralling memoir is an unforgettable odyssey, a moving meditation on modern family life, and a spiritual quest, written with humor and honesty—and filled with love and awe.

About The Author

Dena Moes is a Hollywood born, Yale educated midwife with a BA in literature and an MS in Nursing. Dena and her family live in Chico California but leave town each summer to attend Rainbow Gatherings and Burning Man, and tour the West Coast festival circuit as the Moes Family Band. They always come home in time for school to start - except in 2014, when they set off for India and Nepal. Dena is a songwriter, storyteller, and essayist whose work has been published in Midwifery Today, Shasta Parent, Minerva Rising and the Demeter Press book Travellin’ Mama. The Buddha Sat Right Here is Dena's first book. She is currently gestating her next book, Rebel Midwife. More information can be found at www.denamoes.com.

Product Details

  • Publisher: She Writes Press (April 2, 2019)
  • Length: 272 pages
  • ISBN13: 9781631525629

Raves and Reviews

2019 Readers' Favorite Gold Medal in Travel
2019 International Book Awards, Winner, Religion: Eastern
2019 Next Generation Indie Book Awards: Winner in Travel/Travel Guide
2019 IPPY Gold Medal Winner in Travel Essay
2019 Foreword INDIES Silver Winner in Adult Nonfiction: Travel
2019 Foreword INDIES Finalist in Adult Nonfiction: Autobiography & Memoir
2019 International Book Awards, Finalist, Travel: Guides & Essays
2019 Chanticleer JOURNEY Book Awards for Narrative Non-Fiction Semi-finalist

The Buddha Sat Right Here redefines what memoirs can be. Moes spins a great tale of family, adventure, human connection, and generosity.”
—Rita Banerjee, Director, MFA in Writing & Publishing, Vermont College of Fine Arts, and author of Echo in Four Beats and CREDO

“A chatty, animated American family pilgrimage that effectively conveys the author’s inward search for spiritual meaning.”
Kirkus Reviews

The Buddha Sat Right Here, like India, is a veritable kaleidoscope of experiences. Vacillating between that of a vibrant travelogue, a heartwarming family tale, a spiritual study, and a comedy sketch, Dena Moes’s fine storytelling captures the human character of international travel.”

Forward Reviews



“Prepare to be inspired! What a gift to be invited along on this down-to-earth journey of enlightenment. . . Dena Moes's writing is magical, and Clarabel and Sophia’s contributions make this a multilayered and truly unique family memoir.”
—Ariel Gore, author of The End of Eve, We Were Witches, and Hip Mama Survival Guide

“Like all the best travelogues, The Buddha Sat Right Here is equal parts far-flung experience—the vivid colors and flavors of India—and internal pilgrimage, and I felt lucky to be along for both. Dena Moes is a writer of great intelligence, humility, and sparkle, plus she made me laugh. I loved reading about her family’s wild and beautiful transformation.”

—Catherine Newman, author of Waiting for Birdy and Catastrophic Happiness



The Buddha Sat Right Here is a revelation. Dena Moes’s retelling of her family’s odyssey will make you rethink every aspect of your life, and you’ll likely fall in love with motherhood and marriage all over again. Her insight and honesty are truly a gift to her readers.”
—Annabel Monaghan, author of Does This Volvo Make My Butt Look Big?

“Dena Moes is a brave soul, keen observer, and powerful storyteller. I truly enjoyed tagging along with her and her family on their journey across India and places beyond. From the chaos of the crowded cities to her search for that perfect moment between breaths, Moes—by turns a midwife, a budding Buddhist, a mother, and a wife—enthralls and enlightens. There’s a lot to love about The Buddha Sat Right Here.
—Lisa Kusel, author of Rash: A Memoir

The Buddha Sat Right Here is a moving story of adventure, motherhood, and love. Dena Moes and her family set out on the adventure of a lifetime, finding along the way much more than they bargained for and exactly what they needed. Set among the colorful and spiritual backdrop of India and Nepal, this book stirred up a serious case of wanderlust in me and was a great reminder of the magic that happens when you step into the great unknown.”
—Kim Dinan, author of The Yellow Envelope

“Written with clarity, insight, and enthusiasm, this remarkable story will have you rooting for the Moes family from the beginning. Part travelogue, part spiritual guide, and part family drama, this story of the adventure of a lifetime has all the ingredients of great literature. I have occasionally seen American families traveling through the labyrinth that is India with children and have wondered how they can possibly do it. Now I know.”
—Daniel Veidlinger, Professor, Asian Religions, California State University, Chico

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